The 7 Lessons Of Gratitude – Father Mark Haydu

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The 7 Lessons Of Gratitude – Father Mark Haydu

Here is a summary of 7 lessons on gratitude. Of all the biblical numbers you should be grateful I didn’t choose 144,000.
1) Gratitude should never be silent. We all know what it feels like when they say thank you. And when they don’t! “Unexpressed gratitude is ingratitude.” No doubt the other 9 lepers were super grateful to Jesus. They just didn’t tell him! And didn’t get saved!
2) Gratitude comes from looking and realizing your blessings. The leper looked down. He was a leper and now he is not! Our problem may be that we don’t often realize our blessings. So many gifts of God we have always just had. Just look at all the problems you don’t have! 
3) Gratitude begins where my sense of entitlement ends. As a priest, I’ve had plenty of chances to enter into the challenges people face. With social media even more. There are many byproducts of serving and accompanying the poor, but a primary byproduct for me is to help me see how blessed I am. And see how happy other people can be with so little. 
4) Gratitude is an echo chamber…A good thing happens which is great but once you thank and share it, it is like an echo. The opposite of gratitude is bitterness and it is like sound deadening material. Bitterness allows pain to live longer. Gratitude allows the joys to live longer. 
5) Gratitude is like fertilizer – it makes all kind of other virtues grow. Gratitude generates generosity and attracts people that have a positive spirit. On the other side, ungrateful complainers have the ability (more like a liability) to find, grow, and create burdens. Not showing gratitude can kill are relationship. Spreading a lot of gratitude around will make them flourish!
6) Gratitude is a filter. It sifts out the good and leaves aside the bad. Like our ear picks up all the noises but we only listen to what interests us. A grateful soul focuses on the good, the uplifting, the graces. So filter out the bad, skim it off the top, throw it in the trash and enjoy the long lasting concentrate of goodness. 
7) Finally, gratitude always increases opportunity. When I have my gratitude goggles on I can see opportunities that I missed when I’m not in a feeling of gratitude.


So if you made it to the end of the article. THANK YOU! And pick one of these lessons to put into practice!

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